Dear Annie: How can our marriage survive opposing approaches to money?

A spouse seeks advice on navigating marital conflict caused by opposing approaches to money and financial goal-setting.
I do not want to be controlling, and I do not think either spouse should have to ask permission for every purchase. But what about our larger goals?
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